November 15 & 16, 1997 Sermon



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Mike Slaughter

   
Your children. Some of you are frustrated with children right now because of their lack of direction. Remember the dreams you had for them when they were born. Remember how hard you worked to come up with the right name. You wanted to give them a name of blessing. My brothers and sisters, remember your dreams because God will bring forth new life in the desert. Joy is not the absence of conflict or pain. It is filling your mind with reminders of what God has done and expecting what He will do. Hey, joy remembers. Joy dreams. And you know what else? Joy gives.

III. Give
Psalm 126:5-6
5: May those who sow in tears reap with shouts of joy!
6:
He that goes forth weeping, bearing the seed for sowing, shall come home with shouts of joy, bringing his sheaves with him.
  Look at verses five and six with me. "May those who sow in tears reap with shouts of joy." What does sow mean? It means to give, doesn't it? It means to invest. May those who sow in tears, even in hard times, even in the tough times, reap with shouts of joy. Those who go out weeping while bearing seed for sowing, shall come home with shouts of joy carrying their produce.

A "Get" Focus
Most people are caught with a "Get" focus, not a "Give" focus. Remember, as a kid, you start out with a "Get" focus, don't you? Oh, Christmas is coming, I can't wait to see what I GET. Right? And when you were a little kid, the Sears and Roebuck catalogue used to come to your house. In September, you began to dream about what you would GET. Oh, Daddy, please, if I could just get this three-wheeled tricycle, I'll be happy. But happy is a cheap substitute. It's not the same thing as joy. And happy doesn't last long.
You see, a lot of us get married to be happy, and all of us discover happy doesn't last long. You're not looking for happy, you're looking for joy. Right? You get the three-wheeled trike, you haven't had that very long until someone down the street gets a bike. "Daddy, I know I said I'd never ask for anything again, but, if I could just have a bike!" You been there? Done that? Never ask for anything again. You're happy Christmas morning when you run downstairs and see what you got, but then somebody down the street got a bike and it had a motor on it. You remember? "Daddy I know when I said when I got the bike I'd never ask anything again, but believe me, this time, if I could just ... a car." Right?
You live with a "Get" focus. What are you doing? I'm getting an education. I'm getting a relationship. I'm getting a house, and then I'm getting a bigger house. It is such an ego driven energy and it consumes, because then you get all this stuff and you've got to lock up everything you've got. Right? You have to put locks on your house to keep your things safe, and then you have to back up the locks with alarms. And then you have to secure the alarms with insurance. And then you die.

A "Give" Focus
What has it been about? Joy does not come from getting. You see, joy comes from giving. Joy comes from a new focus. When in pain, we go out crying because it hurts. We go out crying but we've got the seed of giving in our hand when we go. You see that in this psalm? Because joy comes from giving even in our pain, we decide to live in response to the abundance and generosity of God. You see, we trust God will richly provide all my needs according to his riches in Christ Jesus. Joy centers in a God who generously gives, rather than our ego which freely grabs.
   
   

 

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